change in penetration preference

[worried wife]

Recently, my husband has been experiencing problems obtaining and then maintaining an erection after we engage in our usual foreplay (kissing, him fondling my breasts, fondling each other's genitals). Now, it seems that the only way for me to arouse him is to either rub his anus or allow him to rub and/or digitally penetrate mine. I am worried that he is losing his desire for vaginal sex, and I am not particularly fond of anal sex. It is painful for me. I am not opposed to oral sex, and he seems to enjoy that method, but lately he can only be aroused to allow me to perform it as I stated above. I am confused about this change in his sexual behavior.

[cadeness]

Sometimes you need to change things around a bit, add some difference in foreplay or perhaps different positions. This happens a lot more often than you think.

There are plenty of sites online. Askmen is for men but if you go on there and just look at some of what's being said it could give you some ideas.

Don't get discouraged. Maybe also just try talking to your husband.